This is NOT a pretty picture of a lovely cup of coffee. This IS a representation of not being afraid to ask for what you want.
I have a very awesome client who has brought me a coffee every time we train for well over a year. I was never asked how I like it or if I even wanted one (the answer is always yes btw). The coffee isn't how I take it but I'll drink it #becausecoffee 😉 I'm nice. I'm grateful. "If it ain't broke don't fix it..."
Yesterday I politely asked for cream instead of 2% and the answer was "You got it." And it was FN delicious.
I'm still nice. Still grateful. And no longer afraid of little shit.
Go out & get what you want. 👊🏼.